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What happened to this site?

It was May 2 ,2009 when I cannot access my admin page. I just shrug my shoulder thinking that maybe my web host is down and it would be back in a few minutes. That night I wrote a post in my Blogspot about “Fatherlyours.com is down” jokingly asking for help. Not yet in the panic mode.

Then the few minutes become hours and days. I tried everything to contact Kenneth, the owner of Webpinas but all phone number in my list just gave me a “cannot be reach message” for the cell phone and always busy tone for his land line.

May 4, 2009 I wrote another post about my problem titled, “Fatherlyours and my web host” hoping to get an answer but nothing happened.

Then on the 14th of May I wrote an open letter (Webpinas my web host) to Kenneth, AKA – “Hacksider” the username he almost uses in his forum posting. Here I got a comment from two people who are also using webpinas as their web host.

rc studio said…
Sir sa akin down din ang site, from webpinas din courtesy of kenneth, Wala mana lang reply sa text, email at sa account nya sa tipidpc. com. May I know your email add, para magbalitaan tayo about this.

bing said…

his full name is Kenneth Estanislao. I am also a victim. my Warmstone site (my blog from 2005) was hosted by Webpinas for a year. when May comes in, my site cannot be accessed anymore. i tried to contact him with his cel number and his wife’s cel number. i also tried sending an offline message to her YM. i tried calling a landline i found via the internet and discovered it was his parents who had promised me that they will tell their son about contacting me. To no avail.
that was during the first week of May.

i think he is a web host reseller. i really don’t know what happened. the bad part is like the owner of Fatherly Yours, i was not able to have a local backup. it was actually hanging in my head because last April Kenneth and me exchanged text mssgs pa. i also him that time why i cannot access webpinas and he answered like ‘i have big plans for webpinas he he’. i became complacent with the reply and never thought he will just leave me (or us) hanging. now i realized the ‘he he’ at the end of the reply means something bad.

it was so unprofessional of him. i just needed an explanation and if it’s possible to retrieve my seemingly lost files. but he did not care or bother man lang to answer. he has a responsibility at dapat siyang humarap.


Last May 16, Roy posted another one about “Fatherlyours and Webpinas” making an appeal to anyone or everyone who could provide help.

I am really thankful to all those people who drop by the site and leave their support and suggestions. It is a very humbling and heartwarming experience for me.

This follow up post by Roy said it all. The summary of events and facts are very clear. The suggestion and lessons learned are the only things that are positive in this situation. As they say, “Learning from other people’s mistake is the best education we can get”.

The other day I received a short email from Kenneth telling me what happened and I just advised him to explain the same thing to other people who have the misfortune of suffering the same fate as I have.

The previous hosting which is based on malaysia havent even responded me why they did suspend all the servers, theres a news or rumor that they got bankrupt. Sorry but I am only a 3rd party reseller from them, i dont have any file backup from other websites other than me.
All I can do is refund the remaining months you have.

To everybody who have spent their precious time following the saga of fatherlyours (some even offered to host this site) , I say Thank you so much. I may not have mention your name or the things that you have done please forgive me.

Fatherlyours is now online and please join me in reconstructing this site.

Opps! before i forget, Thank you Mae for hosting this site. For hosting you Father!

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    • At 2009.05.29 23:11, earthlingorgeous said:

      welcome back fatherlyours! :)

      • At 2009.05.30 01:34, Roy said:

        uy! tuluy-tuloy na Sir Mon, dami mo na widgets. Congratulations!

        as for Kenneth, pwede niyang sabihin na wala siyang kasalanan sa nangyari, but he still have a responsibility to his clients, keep them informed at least. halos isang buwan bago siya sumagot sa ‘yo.

        i just hope everything will be well for him too, as well as bing, RC and his other clients.

        Roy’s last blog post..Welcome back Fatherlyours!

        • At 2009.05.30 02:32, Snow said:

          Welcome back Fatherlyours! Gosh, we couldn’t imagine blogging without you Sir.

          As for Kenneth Estanislao, let me send this message across.

          Issues like this could have been prevented if you have responded to all your clients. Yeah, eventhough that you are just a mere 3rd party reseller, it is your duty to update your clients of the current situation you are facing.

          Thank you…

          Snow’s last blog post..The Puerto Galera Ferry Accident

          • At 2009.05.30 22:42, Fatherlyours said:

            earthlingorgeous -Thanks. Dami ko i repost.Hanapin ko pa isa-isa. hehehe.

            Roy – kaya nga eh! Minsan diyan nakikita ang tunay na lalaki. I owe you a lot. hehehe. Minsan nga ay inom tayo ng kape ha. Hindi kasi ako nainom ng alak eh.hehehe.

            Snow – Wow, astig ng lola ko. hehehe. Thanks sa support.

            • At 2009.06.02 07:36, Jena Isle said:

              Hello Mon,

              Welcome back. I’m glad you were able to finally reclaim your site. Communication it vital so that misunderstandings won’t occur, but in your case, the problem worsened because of the other party’s indifference to your pleas.

              Like what snow said, if he had come clean immediately after what happened, it would have saved the trouble that you and your friends went through – but looking at it positively, a little controversy won’t hurt. It means you’re known to the blogging world, lalo na ngayon that Roy wrote a post about you twice…he he he.

              Happy blog hopping Mon.

              Jena Isle’s last blog post..“Go Home Yankees!” (Another Boy Story – A Replay)

              • At 2009.06.02 11:19, Ada said:

                Astig! Online na ang blog niyo fatherlyours!
                Sabi ku nga kay kuya roy iapapatunton ku na si Kenneth sa mga police dito sa Marikina, haha!

                Ada’s last blog post..Make Money With Your Passion

                • At 2009.06.02 21:17, Fatherlyours said:

                  Jena – yes you’re absolutely right. I owe a lot to Roy for writing about my problem. Thank you. I just hope that kenneth would learn also about being man enough to face every problem that come shis way.

                  Ada – Naku ha! Huwag naman. Pero alam mo, now ko lang na realize gaano kalaki nawawala sa akin nitong maka receive ako ng mag email about my missing link and the ads that can’t be paid. Huhuhu! Thank you for your concern too! Ganun talaga ang buhay, move on na lang. hahaha!

                  • At 2009.06.03 14:51, Dinah said:

                    uy, welcome back to www sir :-)
                    at i second the motion kay Snow!

                    Dinah’s last blog post..Pilipinas Kong Mahal

                    • At 2009.07.04 19:09, Kenneth said:

                      Actually, i did give a backup number before to all my clients (which is my wife’s number so in any case there’s a problem they can call her since most of the time im out of the country). About the hosting, there’s a tos before signing up that it is the responsibility of the clients to backup their sites in case something like this happened. You can always find me at 10-B minahan street malanday marikina if theres a problem (which is listed on the site before too).

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